You may feel like your world is spinning out of control, taking over your lives and leaving you feeling helpless.
Remain calm in the face of addiction. Shock and fear will aggravate the situation for both of you.
Don't expect your spouse or yourself to be able to fix everything on your own. You may need support through new challenges as well.
Don't agree with addictive behavior, but show your unconditional love and support for the person you married.
Know how treatment programs can help husbands and wives return to happy, healthy relationships raising children and building lives.
Be there as support and participate in treatment opportunities when possible to give your spouse the best chance at lasting recovery.